The Best Ways to Conquer Wedding Planning Stress

By Lorna Urwin

If there’s one thing we don’t have to tell you, it’s that the wedding planning struggle is real. Balancing finances, meetings, designs and lists can get overwhelming, putting you at serious risk of bridal burnout. But with great stress should come great relaxation! So take some time and treat yourself with the following indulgent ideas.

 

1/ Take a relaxing bath

stress, wedding, planning, bride, bridetobe, engaged, egnagement, weddings, weddingideas, relaxations, stressrelief, zen, peaceful, planningstress, weddingplanning

Image by Emily Netz


For some at-home luxury, turn your bathroom into a spa and indulge in a beautifully hot bath. Add some ambience, whether lighting candles, bringing in fresh flowers, pouring some wine or putting on some soft music. For the bath itself, Epsom salts have a reputation as the way to soothe sore muscles, but add a scoop of coconut oil to combat the drying effect of the salts. Add a few drops of a calming essential oil like sage, jasmine or lavender and you’re good to go!


2/ Meditate

stress, wedding, planning, bride, bridetobe, engaged, egnagement, weddings, weddingideas, relaxations, stressrelief, zen, peaceful, planningstress, weddingplanning

Image by Kimberly Genevieve


Meditation has been shown to alleviate both the psychological and physiological symptoms of anxiety and stress, and can provide a really grounding experience during this hectic time. There are plenty of online resources for guided meditation, including Youtube videos and apps like Headspace, Calm or Buddhify. Alternatively, visit a local meditation group to learn more about the practice!


3/ Get moving

stress, wedding, planning, bride, bridetobe, engaged, egnagement, weddings, weddingideas, relaxations, stressrelief, zen, peaceful, planningstress, weddingplanning

Image by Gina Christine Photography


Exercise has long been recognised as a stress reliever, producing those feel-good endorphins, reducing tension, elevating your mood and helping you focus on the activity at hand rather than the source of stress. Any aerobic activity can have this positive effect, from dancing in the kitchen to walking, running or taking an exercise class. Find something that works for you and that you truly enjoy to ensure this becomes a desirable way to unwind.


4/ Have a massage

Relieve any lingering tension in your body with a massage of your choice! While the professional version may be the perfect relaxing treat at such an overwhelming time in your life, you could always ask for your groom-to-be’s help instead and make time for a DIY couples massage! (This article has some handy tips for setting the mood and which oils to use.)


5/ Get together with your girlfriends

stress, wedding, planning, bride, bridetobe, engaged, egnagement, weddings, weddingideas, relaxations, stressrelief, zen, peaceful, planningstress, weddingplanning

Image by Jeremiah and Rachel Photography


Who better to help rescue you from stress than your best girlfriends? Have them over for something super-easy like takeaway food and a movie (see below) or wine, simple snacks and good conversation. Or else go out and enjoy something together – a group mani-pedi or a night of cocktails might be just the treat you’ve needed all along! 


6/ Watch wedding movies

stress, wedding, planning, bride, bridetobe, engaged, egnagement, weddings, weddingideas, relaxations, stressrelief, zen, peaceful, planningstress, weddingplanning

Image by Suzanne Hanover/Universal Pictures


Kicking back and watching a film – whether an all-time favourite or a new release you’ve been dying to see – is such a great way to transport you away from your wedding worries. Movies with a wedding theme can take on a new level of interest and humour during your engagement (think films like My Best Friend’s Wedding, Bridesmaids, Four Weddings and a Funeral, 27 Dresses, Wedding Crashers etc.), but equally you may prefer to leave wedding thoughts behind with something entirely different! Grab your fiancé, a friend, or even just a bowl of popcorn, press play and let the escapism begin!



Comments


You might also like

Wellington Wedding 8 Hidden Wedding Costs

8 Hidden Wedding Costs

<p>You’ve budgeted for all the major items – the venue, dress and photographer. But there are lots...

Wellington Wedding The Complete Guide to Wedding Guest Etiquette

The Complete Guide to Wedding Guest Etiquette

<p>Etiquette may seem like an old, out-dated word to apply to a wedding, but in actual fact, it’s...

Wellington Wedding How to Create a Unique Ceremony Personal to You

How to Create a Unique Ceremony Personal to You

<p>The wedding ceremony is a structure most women have been familiar with since ‘marrying’ bored...

Wellington Wedding 6 Essential Tips for Writing Your Own Wedding Vows

6 Essential Tips for Writing Your Own Wedding Vows

<p>There’s something that feels so romantic about writing your own vows. It’s such a sweet way to...

Like us on Facebook for giveaways, blog posts and wedding showcases!

I already like Wellington Weddings